When you break the process of attraction right downWhen you break the process of attraction right down

When you break the process of attraction right down, you see that it has three main constituent parts. These are the vital stages all men and women must work through to build a mutually felt feeling of sexual chemistry and comfort.
First they need to meet each other. Because of social rules, that means that most of the time the guy is going to have to approach the girl and start a conversation with her. They then BOTH need to progress through the middle stage of attraction, which can simply be summed up as "getting to know one another" - except with a difference.
You see, it's one thing to get to know someone and learn about who they are, what they do, what they like, etc. But it's a whole different thing to actually like and feel attracted to someone because of the things you've learned about them. This is the crucial point when it comes to working through the middle stage of attraction properly and really building a feeling in the girl's mind that she wants to be around you more than any other guy she can see or even think of.
A guy could have a conversation with a girl for 90 minutes and feel it's gone really, really well - they've covered lots of topics, learned plenty about each other, etc. But, regardless of how seemingly successful the conversation has been, the girl could very well NOT feel any kind of attraction for the guy. If this is the case, the final stage of attraction, which involves putting the finishing touches to the dynamic between the guy and the girl - in the form of comfort, physical closeness, etc. - is all but doomed. You may as well forget about closing on this girl and arranging a date.
The subject of this article is 'The Power of Stories'. You see, it's through stories that you, as a guy, can turn an hour long conversation with a girl from being pretty interesting and fairly fun, to seriously engaging, extremely fun and - most crucially - capable of making the girl feel an undeniable feeling of sexual attraction for you.
Let's first look at the mistakes most men make.
- They skip from subject to subject when talking to women without covering anything with any real meaning or in any significant depth.
- They don't communicate anything interesting or attractive about themselves in the things they say.
- Because of reasons one and two above, they leave the women they've talked to, at best, thinking they've just had a nice conversation about nice day-to-day things, but nothing more. There's no attraction in the their minds for the guy they've just finished talking to.
Now, let's look at what you SHOULD do.
The first thing you need to bear in mind is that if you want an attraction for you to build in a woman's mind, you need to communicate to her that you are attractive. One of the best way's of doing this is by telling her stories. Stories not only show women that you're confident, interesting and independent, they also make conversations FEEL fun and like you've actually covered something of real significance. It's not like any old conversation a girl might have with a guy, when he asks her boring questions that she can happily answer without even a second's thought. Here's a good example:
Let's say you're talking to a girl and she asks you what you do for a living. Most guys, happy to have been asked any kind of question by the girl, would immediately offer up the name of their profession as their answer. This, though, isn't at all interesting to the girl. Everyone has a job, they're all different and, unless you're an astronaut or explorer, they're all about as interesting as each other. So, instead of answering this kind of question like most guys, do it a little differently. Use the opportunity to tell the girl a story. You don't need to make a big deal out of it, though. Simply start by saying, "When I was this big *hold your hand at about hip level* I wanted to be a...actually, can you guess? It involves horses, lassos and guns" She'll say, "A cowboy!" "Yeah!" you say, "I wanted to be a cowboy. And I mean REALLY wanted it. I had the whole suit: the hat, the shirt with stars on it, the stirrups." You carry on like this, painting a vivid picture as you talk.
You tell her a STORY that is fun to listen to and that progresses as you tell it. You describe how you went to a rodeo to see real cowboys but that actually put you off the idea, because most of them were fat old guys. As you talk in this interesting, detailed way, the girl will naturally be drawn into you and your story. Through your story, she's actually getting a sense of who you are. And the descriptive, confident way you're telling it makes her attracted to you in an overall sense. Chances are that halfway through the story, she'll be asking questions, laughing and joking. You can jump in and ask her what she wanted to be when she was young. The conversation feels free-flowing, dynamic and really unique - the perfect conditions to allow attraction and sexual chemistry to grow.
So, to sum up:
To really attract women when you talk to them, you need to have a conversation with them that is more than the kind of day-to-day chat they could have with any guy। You can do this by making sure you tell them stories that involve emotion, people, places, fear and fun। Your stories will encourage them to tell her own and before you know it they'll be totally wrapped up in you। They'll feel you've covered some really substantial things and a connection with you will be present in their mind because of that फक्त.।